Thursday, September 15, 2011

Wrestling with Widows



Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.

  Give proper recognition to those widows who are really in need. But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God. The widow who is really in need and left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help. But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she lives. Give the people these instructions, so that no one may be open to blame. Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

  No widow may be put on the list of widows unless she is over sixty, has been faithful to her husband, and is well known for her good deeds, such as bringing up children, showing hospitality, washing the feet of the Lord’s people, helping those in trouble and devoting herself to all kinds of good deeds.

  As for younger widows, do not put them on such a list. For when their sensual desires overcome their dedication to Christ, they want to marry. Thus they bring judgment on themselves, because they have broken their first pledge. Besides, they get into the habit of being idle and going about from house to house. And not only do they become idlers, but also busybodies who talk nonsense, saying things they ought not to. So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander. Some have in fact already turned away to follow Satan.

  If any woman who is a believer has widows in her care, she should continue to help them and not let the church be burdened with them, so that the church can help those widows who are really in need.

  The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honour, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching. For Scripture says, “Do not muzzle an ox while it is treading out the grain,” and “Workers deserve their wages.” Do not entertain an accusation against an elder unless it is brought by two or three witnesses. But those elders who are sinning you are to reprove before everyone, so that the others may take warning. I charge you, in the sight of God and Christ Jesus and the elect angels, to keep these instructions without partiality, and to do nothing out of favouritism.

  Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands, and do not share in the sins of others. Keep yourself pure.

  Stop drinking only water, and use a little wine because of your stomach and your frequent illnesses.

  The sins of some are obvious, reaching the place of judgment ahead of them; the sins of others trail behind them. In the same way, good deeds are obvious, and even those that are not obvious cannot remain hidden forever.

  All who are under the yoke of slavery should consider their masters worthy of full respect, so that God’s name and our teaching may not be slandered. Those who have believing masters should not show them disrespect just because they are fellow believers. Instead, they should serve them even better because their masters are dear to them as fellow believers and are devoted to the welfare of their slaves.
1 Timothy 5:1-6:2 (TNIV)

Over the next two Sundays at church we will be exploring a larger section of teaching that spans all of chapter 5 and into the beginning of chapter 6. What Paul shifts to here is instruction on how we are to live in the family of God. How do we relate to each other and how do we treat each other – what are our responsibilities and how do those differ from the way the world outside the church practices relationships?

In this section Paul gives us three examples of how we are to live differently as the church. He talks about caring for widows, he talks about treating your leaders with respect and he talks about the relationship between slaves and masters in the church. On the surface it seems pretty straightforward but believe me as I’ve worked on this over the last couple of weeks I can tell you that it isn’t.

Unlike other problematic passages in this epistle (the second half of chapter two and the first half of chapter three are good examples) the challenge for a preacher here is not with exegesis. That is to say that the problem is not with finding out what exactly Paul meant in the original context when he wrote this – I have yet to read a commentary or listen to a sermon that radically diverges from the consensus opinion on this text. The exegesis here is pretty straight-forward – however an even bigger problem emerges here for the pastor in a discipline that we call hermeneutics.

Hermeneutics is the study of how we teach and apply the lessons and values of Scripture to a culture that is often far removed from the culture and the world of the original author and listeners. It’s looking at a scenario that may not even exist anymore today because of the changes in society that have taken place over the last couple thousand years. In hermeneutics the preacher is asking “What does the text have to say to us TODAY?”  Hermeneutics is a more subjective art than exegesis is – even people with the same foundational understanding of what the text is saying to the original audience can vary wildly on how to appropriately apply those lessons today. It is no surprise then that I move forward into this next section of our Epistle with not a little fear and trepidation.

Of the three examples that Paul gives us in this section only one of them is what I would judge to have a direct correlation in today’s church and society – that would be the back half of chapter five when Paul talks about leaders in the church. There is not much in that example that doesn’t equate cleanly with our situation today. The first and third examples, however, give us some trouble.  Slavery, for one, does not exist in our western culture – at least not as a formalized institution like it was in the days of the early church. Today we rightly consider slavery to be an abomination – a terrible abuse of a person’s intrinsic human dignity and a thoroughly unchristian way to treat people (despite the multitude of passages in scripture that accommodate slavery – but that’s an explanation for another day). Certainly we are not going to look at Paul’s example of slaves and masters as being prescriptive for what God wants to teach us through this passage in 2011 – so we need to build a hermeneutical bridge. In this case it’s not that difficult; Slaves and Masters nicely equates to our modern relationship of employees and employers. The question then becomes this: how do your Christian family values influence your life in the work place? We build that hermeneutical bridge and all of the sudden the teaching becomes very relevant. We will look at that issue in two weeks – but this Sunday we have an even bigger challenge: This week we have to wrestle with widows.

This example is more problematic. Because on the surface we can plainly see that we still have widows among us today. There are widows in our church, and so it would seem that there IS a direct correlation between the first century example and our 21st century world – but even a cursory historical study would reveal vast differences between the widows in the early church and the widows in our church today.

In the world of the early church women did not have a lot of power; they did not have land owning rights, they were dependant on male family members to provide for and protect them. There were (one needs to acknowledge) some examples of business women in the New Testament (Lydia, the seller of purple cloth comes to mind) but they were far from being the norm in their day. By and large the men in the family generated the income and the women managed and ran the household. So when a woman’s husband passed away she was at a great economic disadvantage in her day. A widow who was not taken in or remarried or cared for in some way was destined to be a homeless beggar – or worse. Widows – along with orphans – were the most vulnerable people in first century society – and the church had a mandate from Jesus himself (take a look at Matthew 25) to care for them.

This however is a far cry from today’s world. Recent economic statistics from the US reveal that there is more wealth held by women in that country than there is by men. Modern protections like life-insurance, savings plans, retirement accounts, old age security, inheritance laws and joint ownership of property within a marriage – combined with women’s propensity to outlive their spouses have changed it so that very often the widows of the New Testament bear very little resemblance to the widows of today. This is a wonderful thing, but therein lays the hermeneutical problem – who are today’s widows if not the widows?

Well certainly there are widows in today’s western church that would still be as vulnerable as the widows of Timothy’s church but they would be far from the numerically significant people group that they were back then – and they would not likely be the worst-off demographic in our churches. I have heard a number of suggestions from other pastors as to who the modern equivalent would be – from Single Mothers (and I would expand that to single parents period) to people with significant medical problems (particularly in the USA where sickness can bankrupt a person) to impoverished children to people in regions that have been devastated by economic collapse and literally have zero prospects of employment. The point they all are making (and that I would agree with) is that the widows of today’s church look radically different than they did in the first century, and consequently a responsible hermeneutic of this text needs to acknowledge that the world has turned and times have changed.

So with all of this in mind I’ve decided to take the following approach to this section of text and the three examples contained within over the next two weeks:

The Framework of 1 Timothy 5:1-6:2
Big Idea – How we live in the family of God
1.       Caring for the members of the family (5:1-16)
2.       Cultivating and caring for godly leaders (5:17-25)
3.       Taking your home to work (6:1-2)

This week we will look at the preamble and example number 1 and next week we will tackle examples 2 and 3. I’d encourage you to spend some time meditating on this text yourself and thinking along with me as to who are the most vulnerable people in our society. Perhaps the Lord will lay on your heart a burden or conviction to wrestle with widows yourself.

See you on Sunday,
Chris

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